Head Table vs. Sweetheart Table

When choosing the layout for the reception space, one of the biggest considerations is whether you will have a head table or a sweetheart table. “What are these?” you may ask! 

Head Table: A long rectangular table for the couple to sit at alongside their entire bridal party. 

Sweetheart Table: A small round or rectangular table for just the bride & groom to sit at. 

Here are a few pros & cons for each option (some specifically in regard to our reception area layout):

Head Table

• Pros:

• Has a more formal look to it. 

• Can be very grand and elegant once decked with decor. 

• Can help fill the space a little bit better if you have a smaller guest count. 

• Cons:

• Leaves bridal party’s plus ones to find somewhere else to sit, even if they don’t know anyone else at the wedding. 

• Harder for bridal party members to actually talk to each other. 

• Takes up more space in the reception hall (not ideal for larger weddings). 

• More decor is needed (more expensive) 

Sweetheart Table 

• Pros:

• Bride & Groom have a space to relax for a few minutes while they eat. 

• Less decor needed to make it look nice. 

• Takes up less space (ideal for larger weddings)

• Bridal party members can sit with their plus ones or at a larger round table with the other bridal party members. 

• Cons:

• Could be awkward if bridal party members don’t know where to sit. 

• Sometimes puts more attention on the bride and groom.

In choosing between the two options, always remember - do what fits you and your group best - you won’t be sitting for very long anyways!!